Melvin and Elise

Thirty Eight - Can You Believe It?

2011-10-13T08:10:00.000-07:00

Well we just celebrated 38 years of marriage with a private party and our day was delightful. We are in a transition stage, once again in our lives, when everything feels different than any part of our life so far. So, here's to the next 38!

Example

2011-09-21T07:56:00.000-07:00

If you can't be a good example- then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.

Please don't watch us too closely in the next little while. We're working on our pioneering merit badge. We may struggle a little to try and get things right. Our hope is that we will prove faithful in all things and not turn out as a horrible warning.

What do YOU do in the summertime?

2011-06-25T15:26:00.000-07:00

We answer that with, Owen comes into the world and Lizzie gets baptized. Summertime is a great time of year, even when you only watch others swim in a pool to keep themselves cool or swing in a tree up high.

We have an unwritten daily schedule. There is a time when we take turns swinging. It's great that we're learning about turns. While swinging we usually sing songs. So it makes since that as we were passing a corn field the other day, grandma started belting out...

The corn is as high as an elephants' eye...which led to the question: "How can you tell it's a corn field?" So we had to get out and have science class. It was so fun to add, "check out the corn so high" to the song. Is that what you do? So do I.

Halloween Costumes

2010-11-05T20:19:00.000-07:00

Hi World, We are back. Our vacation was taken partly because we couldn't find our camera for a long time. Apparently, I put it up because the kids played dress up and took MANY pictures, and putting it in a perfect out of the way place, I couldn't find it for girls camp in October, which was a huge success, (best year yet) or for documenting our latest and greatest darling grandbaby girl, Katie Olivia. But, alas, I did find it for the Tour de Safford ride so here ya go = Mel and Kevin in their Halloween costumes before wearing them on their bikes for 66 miles. Aren't they cute? Then, I got to spend the day with my 8th grade best friend. When we met a couple of months back after not seeing each other for 37 years, it was a happy day, like Alma and the sons of Mosiah type meeting. So here we are dressed up as ourselves 37 years later.

Rearranged

2010-08-22T21:33:00.000-07:00

Our loft got magically rearranged tonight and when I find the camera you'll all be able to see the most amazing transformation an eleven, ten, six and five year old can make very quietly in about 30 minutes. Seriously, they moved the heavy book cases together just like I had dreamed for months of doing but I was too wimpy to move and the bench is by the south wall so that little ones can no longer hang over the scary ledge of the loft to scare me to death, and the "classroom" has a complete new look, topped off with the lovely Christmas floral arrangement on top of the bookcase. I really love the whole lay out. My granddaughters are going to be interior designers for sure. They've already got a happy client!

We could use a little more

2010-08-16T06:51:00.000-07:00

I don't get to see this too often and personally I think we could use a little more. Is there rain anywhere in the forcast?

Happy Birthday, I ate too much

2010-08-14T18:30:00.000-07:00

Once again, it was Arlene's birthday and we went out to eat. I always eat too much when I go with Arlene. She has had quite a year, but got word for her birthday that her 6 month infection is gone. Hip (literally) Hip Hooray! We forgot to take the camera this year so here's a picture from her party two year's ago. She's smaller this year, and I'm bigger. What can I say? Happy Birthday, I ate too much!

made my day

2010-08-05T06:38:00.000-07:00

"Gratsmylations!" Oakley exclaimed. Doesn't that just make your day? Here are just a few of the things that have made my day, lately. First of all, having a clean truck makes me happy and the Liahona girls had a camp fundraiser car wash. Parker was so happy to visit this weekend. I love that he treats me like a favorite. Isn't he big?
Liz picked fake glasses for her school accessory of choice. Can't wait to see her with them.
Then our stake did an amazing service project and the young women had the opportunity to go buy shoes for a school for homeless children. It was Marina's birthday and she was there selecting shoes for someone else. I came home and found that Kevin had snuck in my house and done the dishes. Now there's a way to get on my good side! Yesterday while Oakley was saying a blessing on the food, Reese folded his arms, so I praised him, then looked at Nate who gave the "I'm cute" look and immediately folded his arms for a second or two. Totally made my day. You'd think they were in their white shirts and ties, they were so reverent!

And then this morning, we had a Mary sighting. We hadn't seen her for a couple of months and I was worried that the summer had been too hot for her, but no, she's still eating the garden. Yay! My day has been made, yet again. Such simple joys. I think I need to start looking for and recording all the tender mercies and simple joys of my days. Little philosophizing moment: This life is a journey of happiness as we follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, not to happiness, but a path of happiness on the journey of life. Have a happy day!

Toilet Talk

2010-08-02T06:30:00.000-07:00

This morning as I did the Monday toilet clean, I thought how great it would be to have a composting toilet. Mariann showed me these marvels on our trip recently. She has always seemed very organized and a super cleaner, and if this is her dream, it's mine too. The great thing is that when we walked into this bathroom, it smelled fresh, with no hint of compost or any other odor. Where do we go to get one of these? To me, this is right up there with the stainless steel kitchen, with power hose and drain in the middle. Now that's talking.

Jones Grandpa's visit

2010-07-29T06:14:00.000-07:00

Mel recently returned from a fun visit with these guys. His intentions were to make sure Chris' motorcycle was in tiptop shape and then the two of them would ride off into the sunrise to a motorcycle rally and enjoy the heck out of a week. But circumstances allowed for a different useful use of time in building a deck and enjoying the whole fam. Not one picture was taken. I imagine they were having too much fun or didn't have the annoying picture taker around telling them to stand over there somewhere.

Courage

2010-07-24T07:34:00.000-07:00

Recently Mariann and I attended the Benjamin Franklin Johnson family reunion of our 4th great grand father's descendants. I dared her to say "hi Cuz!" to everyone she met, but she didn't do it once. Our famous author cousins, Keri and Marcie, have written four volumes of historical fiction about this man's family and I found them very descriptive and interesting. But after Elaine found the rattlesnake story on page 113 of his own autobiography, I started reading My Life's Review with such an interest that I can't put it down.

One entry I found telling of his moral courage when arrested at age twenty in Missouri, basically for being a hated Mormon. He was kept outside in the snow for eight days without a coat, blanket or warmth, food was never offered to him, threats of death in the most inhumane ways given on a constant basis. He said that this was the most terrible ordeal he had ever passed through. But he had been taught to tell the truth and prayed that he could tell the truth without implicating anyone else. On interrogation the Justice realized that he couldn't proceed as he wished and jumped up in anger, declaring that he would have nothing more to do with the matter and to do whatever they pleased with Benjamin. They took him back to the guard and the common talk was that he was to be shot. Often they would said to him, "Now if you would only give names of some others and help to convict them you might go free."

Benjamin said that he asked himself, "Which would require the greatest bravery--to stand up like a man and be shot, or like a dog, live to be despised by all who loved me; to make my parents who now loved me ashamed to own me, and my brothers and darling sisters, to think how they would weep for my shame, also those who had died and begged me to be faithful--could I endure such a living death?" Every feeling within me responded, "No! I am too great a coward ever to meet those I love, who are good and pure, and feel myself a traitor." My whole soul gave the verdict that I would not save my life at such a price.

To me this is courage of high caliber. Blessed, honored pioneers!

Donald Elmo

2010-07-23T07:25:00.000-07:00

Today is the anniversary of the birth of Donald Elmo 88 years ago. Happy Birthday to the man who taught me to fold fitted sheets. I loved this positive man who always referred to me as beautiful. I'm sure he's busy orchestrating some event. By the way, I need some help with my computer skills. Donald only taught me the importance of learning to type.

Goin' to Salt Lick

2010-07-21T21:44:00.000-07:00

Beautiful as an Arizona Sunrise

2010-06-15T05:53:00.000-07:00

About this time thirty-one years ago, I was frantically washing my elbow length hair. Why do I remember this? I was feeling contractions about two minutes apart, and even though the doctor had told me just the afternoon before not to expect my baby for about two weeks, this was the real deal. It was a Friday and Mel had a test at school that morning so he had been up late studying. He was in his pedo rotation. He usually rode his bike the thirteen miles to school, but was planning to car pool with Mark Peterson and Bob Critchfield that day. It was Mark's turn to drive. Mel called Mark to tell him he wouldn't be riding and to ask if Shelley could watch our other kids while we went to the hospital. It was a foggy morning, because we weren't in Arizona, and I remember how little our three looked getting out of the car and running with their blankets through the wet air into our friends house. At the hospital, the nurse checked me and her eyes grew wide as she ran for the doctor. He came in and literally caught our baby as she entered the world at 6:30 AM, not more than a very few minutes after our arrival at the hospital. It was the first time Mel was in the delivery room and it all made him a little light headed. But she was as beautiful as an Arizona sunrise, and had we been in Arizona, there may have been a beautiful sunrise, but we weren't. She was Sara. The doctor was surprised that she was more than four pounds, like he had predicted and that she came so soon. So, I was fine, she was fine, and Mel was fine, so he went to school and took his test and went on to the pedo clinic to finish out his day. Happy Beautiful Arizona Sunrise! Happy Birthday Sara!

What would we do without her?

2010-05-25T06:28:00.000-07:00

She is amazing! She willingly shares her talents and abilities at the expense of her own time and sleep and continues to smile. Thank you sweet Sara!

The Gila Valley Temple is dedicated and beautiful

2010-05-23T12:20:00.000-07:00

Philippians 4:7- And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Important Reminder

2010-05-20T16:06:00.000-07:00

As I came home today after a sweet day with the little boys, being a little self absorbed with my list and realizing that a throw up smell was soaking my shirt, I received this reminder of what I really want to be like from one of my favorite ladies.
"I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with perfectly manicured fingernails.

I want to drive up in a stationwagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp.

I want to be there with grass stains on my shoes from mowing my neighbor's lawn.

I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor's children.

I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's garden.

I want to be there with the children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder.

I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived." ~Marjorie Pay Hinckley

Now I realize that "no unclean thing can enter into his kingdom..." (3 Nephi 27:19) but I think this is a pretty humbling reminder from a beautifully nearly perfect lady. I think I'll just keep this shirt on a while longer.

Mocking is for the birds

2010-05-18T20:12:00.000-07:00

Mr. Mockingbird lives here. He is very protective of his home and is a little like one of our children who had the rest of the family convinced that he owned half the house. This guy doesn't really care who makes the mortgage payments, because he OWNS the yard and dive bombs anyone who threatens his domain in the Spring. Well, happily, Spring must be done, because I didn't get dive bombed today when I went out into the back yard. You'd think you would need a large and spacious building to do your mocking. Apparently not. It gives me one reason to like Summer.

getting a sister

2010-05-16T10:37:00.001-07:00

Happiest news of the week, the boys get another sister. Who looks the most excited?

Look Up!

2010-05-11T15:05:00.000-07:00

Paria's beauty was not shown in my last post. Please enjoy the scenery that we continually marvelled over for three days as we passed through it. Sometimes because we were looking down, our breath was taken away as we looked up.

Isn't it stunningly beautiful? And for a better play by play account, please read Alyson's blog at nielson6forever.blogspot.com or just click on Nielson's on this blog. Seriously, you'll feel like you went with us. Maybe you are the one carrying the poo bag. Just look up!

Every Day is Mother's Day

2010-05-09T16:50:00.000-07:00

Mel got me an early Mother's Day gift. It was a new down filled sleeping bag. Then for an early Mother's Day expedition, we hiked and camped in Paria Canyon and I carried it for three days and used it for two nights.
We had heard that you had to pack everything out that you took in, so we shouldn't have been surprised by the human solid waste bags. We were happy to get rid of those. The entertainment was never ending and it seemed that the cold mud wasn't either.
Purifying water races are amusing, and thank you Jared for being the water boy. Kirk could scale any cliff. He's nearly a mountain goat.
Mel called this the rock scramble.
It was amazing that after setting our clothes out to dry, that Chris' pants could stand up by themselves and Jared's socks stood at attention but couldn't be cracked open.
Jared was a joy to have along. He owned the canyon or visa versa!I am so proud of Alyson for being such a wilderness woman and remaining beautiful through the entire backpacing adventure.I felt like every day is Mother's Day as Chris and Kirk helped me over and through every tight spot. Kevin carried my heavy pack (including the human solid waste bag) the last part of the last day. Mel, bless his heart, took care of me by packing my pack, setting up the tent every night, including putting out my air matress and sleeping bag, rolling it all up in the mornings and then cooking our meals. He took care of my every need. Kevin doing push-ups on a tire (who knows how it got there)was just part of the never ending entertainment - you would have had to been there.
I truly feel blessed to be a mother as I watch my children interact with their spouses and raise their own families. See what I mean, every day is Mother's Day.

April's Random Review

2010-05-03T06:55:00.000-07:00

We love April! It is such a green and growing month. The last day of it part of our family took a day trip to the Gila Valley temple open house. We highly recommend it. It is a beautiful building inside and out. If you have ever wanted to know about what The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have going on in their temples, here's your chance to see. This temple seemed tiny to us, but it has amazing local artwork. We had a wonderful day. Here's a pictoral recap of our visit to "the valley" with a few random other April treats. Because when I upload the pictures a digital explanation of each photo appears instead of the picture, I have no idea which is where, so please excuse my captions if they have nothing to do with the pictures until I figure out which tabs or keys I pushed to make my post options so difficult. If anyone would care to help me out on this I'd thank you.

Okay, so this wasn't at the temple. Like I said there are a few random ones here. We've got a talented group who all love this pastime.

We all love Nami. She and Kev were the only ones to have food left for their next meal.
Oh and when they are together, Oakley and Brynn are a pair...
a cute pair.
Scamps!
Mel and Dona. Aren't they the cutest siblings?
I think this is what Kev wishes his yard looked like. He has an obsession with making his yard beautiful, and who sees it besides Bruce? That's okay Kev. I appreciate it.
Lots of old people like to go to the temple too.
Is this not the cutest thing a little boy can do?
Our little garden has a hard time competing with Dona's but we're not all bull.

Marsha--Marsha--Marsha

2010-04-17T07:01:00.000-07:00

Marsha is the feeding and speech therapist who is trying to teach me sign language so that I can use it as I interact with the boys, thus creating better learning. Can you say, old dog, new tricks? But as I say that I am thinking, pat the leg and snap the fingers, the sign for dog. What is this world coming to? I personally think that Philip would do a much better job as he is obviously adored.

Hippity Hop Hop

2010-04-03T12:03:00.001-07:00

So here we were just minding our own business and coloring eggs as part of our Easter traditional activities...
you know, everyone using their most creative juices to make amazing creations...
Nate eating his first sucker and tossing chex down to Reese...

a very proud young woman showing off her hard earned treasure, when a knock came on the door and my oh my, the Easter Bunny was standing at our door. Hippity Hop Hop!!! Everyone out on the grass...
Happy Easter.

BUNDLITIOUS!

2010-03-24T14:54:00.000-07:00

The last school play I attended had Tanner as the Mayor , but young women at church keep giving the excuse "I have play practice, and I was asked to make some bundies for the dancing girls, so this year's school rendition of "Guys and Dolls" should be coming up soon.
My models are not in the school play, but they probably should have tried out.
I'm not sure all bundies are created equal. Note to dancers: Hope yours fit better than these and so sorry about the scratchy lace on your thighs! I tried to warn them.

Driving on Val Vista I saw a bill board that advertised bundles that you can have with your internet service. They called it "Bundlitious!" Hope you agree with me that these are bundlitious too.

vacation from our problems

2010-03-20T06:16:00.000-07:00

You COULD call it a vacation. We stayed overnight in a beautiful secluded resort with water features. Adventure that we hadn't experienced together before and we loved every second of crossing the water twenty-six times. Mel wouldn't let me count the times we could just jump over the water (4), or when the trail was just a continual seep and we we just trekking through water (11), and I didn't count the times that we fell down. But all in all, even though we feel very old we're glad to be alive and home in our boring bed. Aren't you glad we didn't label this "wet and wild" for it may be a huge disappointment? Kids, get some hiking poles! They were life savers.

funeral therapy

2010-03-03T20:30:00.000-08:00

An amazing way to be uplifted is to go to a funeral. I love it. I learn so many good things about people and feel the need to live a better life. I recently attended Jan Loar's funeral and felt the love of God there. Contracting polio when she was 15 and living in an iron lung gave her limitations, but she overcame so much in her life, and was so good that she deserves a crown and a mansion in heaven, plus a body that can run without a struggle.

This week I attended the funeral of a sweet friend from childhood, Kristi Lee Rowley Sherwood Crum, who fought a long fight with lung cancer. She shared her many musical talents widely. I am always strengthened by the things people do in their lives to improve the world around them.

My sweet friend and example, Virginia Stradling passed away this afternoon. I will miss her, but I won't miss her funeral. It does seem a little selfish on my part doesn't it?

Mel thinks it's a sickness with me, nevertheless I will continue and don't plan to repent any time soon.

Ode to Ione

2010-02-20T15:34:00.000-08:00

Every year when they bloom, I think of Ione, and I am happy for the things I learned from her.

Donna Day

2010-02-17T15:11:00.000-08:00

Wednesday, usually one day a month, we have "Donna Day." It's the day my friend goes to the doctor and we do her errands. She is the navigator and I am the driver. She makes lots of funnies, we usually have some type of lunch and we spend the whole day together. Brynn and Oakley have visited her and she adores them. I thought it might be time for you to meet Donna. Here she is with two of her adorable grandchildren.

sharpest tools

2010-02-16T04:55:00.000-08:00

"One of the adversary's sharpest tools is to convince us that we are no longer worthy to pray. No matter who you are or what you have done, you can always pray. Prayer is your personal key to heaven. The lock is on your side of the veil." ~Boyd K. Packer, "Prayer and Promptings," Ensign, Nov. 2009, 43-46

As a kid, I used to hate when the opening song in Sunday School started with "Ere you left your room this morning did you think to pray?" I never had. I did pretty well with the canned prayers at night, but the really heartfelt faith kind of prayers -- not there too often. I guess I needed to have a little opposition in my life to find out that I really do need my Heavenly Father every hour and I need constant secret prayer. As my heart has turned to heaven I have seen the hand of the Lord daily in my life. Just this last week as I was with our sweet Parker, I was reminded clearly that God lives and is in His heaven. He loves us and wants to bless us. His Son Jesus Christ is our advocate with the Father. Jesus extends his loving hand constantly and loves us perfectly. He will plead our case with our loving Father. Satan may have sharp tools, but they will never be able to pick the lock to heaven's door. That key is prayer and I am so grateful for it.

for the love

2010-02-13T07:52:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day! It's the time of year when Mel and I celebrate the first time he asked me out. It was a monumental occasion and took much courage on his part. I am so glad that he did. Recently I studied the talk by President Henry B. Eyring, "Our Perfect Example." I've found that this has helped our love to grow so I'd like to share it with you.

1- Pray for the love which allows you to see the good in your companion.

2- Pray for the love that makes weaknesses and mistakes seem small.

3- Pray for the love to make your companion's joy your own.

4- Pray for the love to want to lessen the load and soften the sorrows of your companion.

My Melvi has been doing this for a long time. He is so patient, loving and accepting of me. I love him more than however long ago that was that he first asked me out.

friend

2010-02-06T18:28:00.000-08:00

A friend is more concerned about helping people than getting credit. A friend cares. A friend loves. A friend listens. And a friend reaches out. ~Thomas S. Monson

Mutual - Dude! This is fun, can we do it again?

2010-01-25T06:22:00.000-08:00

We've been visiting week night mutual activities as part of our ward conference visits. I love being with these youth. They are so full of life and goodness. I wouldn't have believed that kids would like ballroom dancing, but this activity was planned by the Priests (16-18 year old boys) and despite the resistance from a couple of the girls, they all seemed to have fun learning ettiquette and smooth dance steps. I would call it a successful activity. Direct quote from one of the resisters: Dude! This is fun, can we do it again?

I'm Trying to be Like Jesus

2010-01-21T05:58:00.000-08:00

"Live so that others will want to know Christ because they know you." I love this saying, but have not been a very good example of it. Please forgive me of katty comments and naughty, sarcastic thoughts that I've shared with you. I am trying to be better. This is prompted by an amazing talk in our last church conference by President Henry B. Eyring called "Our Perfect Example." He said "Our way of life, hour by hour, must be filled with the love of God and love for others. It is love of God that will lead us to keep His commandments. And love of others is at the heart of our capacity to obey Him." Will you please help me be better?

flu or flew?

2010-01-09T08:24:00.000-08:00

Various types of flu are going around. Hope these two don't get bird flu.

What are the possibilities? Yes, the answer is yes, it is dead. And while we're on the subject of birds, can we talk about Mary? HHHHH!!! She is an answer to prayers, she eats scorpions, but also a testimony of opposition in all things. She eats everything! Our garden is pecked to the root before it gets 1/2 inch high.

This is pretty much all we see of her this weekend however, because Bruce makes sure that she is taking good care of Cooley's scorpions. This is Mary, just before she flew.

So flu or flew? Which will it be?

Seasonal

2009-12-11T14:46:00.000-08:00

"By focusing on your loved ones, enjoying or building holiday traditions and following the Savior's example of service, you can give yourself and your family true, lasting Christmas gifts." ~Someone anonomously profound, I'm sure

"The gift of Christmas isn't wrapped up in presents or parties. The gift of Christmas is Jesus Christ, the Only Begotten of the Father, the Son of God. As you follow Him, you put people first.

You spend less time in lines and more time serving others. You may spend less money on and more time with the people you love. You may lose yourself and you may find everything else that matters." ~also a quote by anonomous someone profound
These two people are the best examples I can think of for those who TrueLee lose themselves in the service of others.

Christmas season once again. I love the true meaning of this season. When I think of the humble first Christmas I am overcome with gratitude for our Heavenly Father and sweet Mary who was such a beautiful, valiant, virtuous mother of the Son of God. I can hardly wait to have family close and almost all together again for a few minutes.

I Heart Asphalt

2009-10-08T05:50:00.000-07:00

My coordinated friend T always says, "Tuck and roll." Apparently I believe in "Fall and Sprawl."

Bless my little heart! Apparently.

55 and still alive

2009-10-05T06:45:00.000-07:00

"Mom, why don't you ever post anymore?" said Alyson. My response is sorta lame, "I don't know, I guess I'm not using my time effectively anymore." Obviously, my daughters help me out with every project I undertake. An excuse I'll use is that I like to spend my time with grandkids and I don't seem to find time to get to the computer.

But those are both excuses, so today I am posting. Happy Anniversary to these two couples today! I remember the happy day for both of these couples like it was yesterday. Do you think Chris looks like he's full of just as much bull as he was that day?

What I remember about Joe & Mariann's day was that we couldn't find anything for Alyson to wear so she wore her dress made out of the tablecloth that was WAY too little for her, but Joe and Mar were a stunning couple. They still are, only more distinguished looking.

So there you go Al! I posted and I'm here to say I'm 55 and still alive. Can someone tell me about all the Senior discounts I can get now?

The industrious girl lives somewhere else now and other summer adventures

2009-08-12T20:55:00.000-07:00

Natalie was so industrious while she lived at our house. I was continually in awe of the things that she could accomplish. She sewed cute little skirts for Amy out of scraps of nothing. Each time I came home from somewhere there would be another batch of bottles cooling. She bottled pinto beans, black beans, chicken, zucchini relish, tomatoes, probably more stuff that I can't remember, and even made dill pickles out of eggplant. Oh the industrious girl. Of course we never took a picture. She's way too modest. Not only that, but I'd come home and she'd fix me lunch or dinner, whichever time of day it was. She can figure out a menu out of the pantry, and her meals are always delicious and nutritious! So I'm missing my maid and her hilarious kids!

So I went to camp and took zero pictures but I will thrill you with random other venues that I attended this summer in Utah, immediately before and after camp.

This is True's Crew that showed up for the Robison reunion in Holden, July 18th. Please don't worry about the spilled snowcones. The ants didn't take over too soon.

This is Aunt Phyllis in the white shirt. The reunion was kind of a surprize 90th birthday party for her. Aunt Estell is a year younger. My mom's sisters are such cute little ladies. If you need a prize winning quilt, they are both masters at piecing and quilting.

The Jones portion of the reunion.Me, with the two cousins I spent most of my Utah summers with. Love these girls.

This is Jamie and Russell's very cute wedding cake. I also loved Jabe and Presley's too because it was very elegant, but I'm really lame at taking pictures. Please don't hire me for anything like that.Here's Lee and True on their 56th wedding anniversary, right after Lee performed the sealing ceremony for Russell and Jamie.Here's Russell and Jamie on their zeroth anniversary with their very cute parents.Next day, new bride and groom, Jabe and Presley ~ again Lee was the sealer. Both Grandpa's were master gardeners and their yards where the receptions were held were lush, green, blooming and beautiful and made me wish I lived in Utah. Seriously people, you can really grow anything there. So these are Presley's little brothers, 6 month old twins and a five year old, I believe, plus a seven year old sister. Is that right? Anyway, what a brave mom and dad Presley has.
Sophia was happy until the "Bossy Boy" came. It was down hill from there. No amount of coaxing from Chris could fix the Bossy Boy problem.

So that's it folks. School started here today so it's supposed to be fall now, right? Tell me why it is 10:07 PM and still 93 degrees.

Our favorite grand-dog!

2009-07-27T18:03:00.000-07:00

Look how smart our favorite grand-dog is! I swear, pretty soon he is going to go all Animal Farm on us.

Sorry for the non-posting as of late. Girls camp, reunions, and weddings have been keeping us pretty busy.

Summer Profiles

2009-06-09T13:28:00.000-07:00

Profile Twins -
This is an awkward profile shot so we better turn things around. Here's a better shot, the only awkward one here is Kevin. Sara finally took off her SunSplash band.

light at the end of the tunnel

2009-05-19T08:31:00.000-07:00

Happy Graduation everyone! This is a great time to reflect on enduring to the end. Sometimes it is hard to even think that there will ever be an end or even a breather to our struggles. I personally need to remember that there can be light in the whole pass through process.
Happy Day to all!

looking forward

2009-05-12T08:56:00.000-07:00

Looking forward to Jake's graduation...so I can go to Iowa where the corn (wish my garden looked this way this year...unfortunately it doesn't thrive on neglect in AZ)and the corny are as high as an elephants' eye...Looking forward to Melissa's graduation so that she will once again climb the (career) ladder and help with my summer painting. Congratulations and thanks in advance Melissa!

Then I'm looking forward to young women's camp. Our theme this year is "Live Like You Believe." I'm so excited for it. Any ideas for camping fun, let me know here...

Clap your hands!

2009-05-05T15:21:00.000-07:00

If you're happy and you know it clap your hands!
Lots of good things happen every day. Three blessings I'm counting today are:

1-Nate has gone wireless. Yep, he can be transported without wires attached. It's a happy day.
2-It's graduation time for Jake and Melissa and we're so proud of them.
3-It looks like Melvi totally has a chance to win the first challenge in the "Burn Baby Burn" contest.

Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections. This would be the case with this friend of mine who is the most positive outlooker I've ever met. I'm trying to help her find a kind, good man to befriend and spend time with. If you would kindly funnel your great ideas through me for preapproval, it would be greatly appreciated.

Happy Cinco de Mayo! Clap your hands!

Eggs

2009-04-06T09:14:00.000-07:00

Can I first say that I loved General Conference. It filled my soul and made me want to be a better person. Can I next say, Happy Birthday to Alyson. She is such an angel and blessing in my life. She is a testimony that unhappy cranky little babies can be most beautiful and good. Happy Birthday Alyson, you're a good egg.

Oakley is fascinated with eggs. He always wants to crack them for me when we are cooking. The other week we were out in the front getting the mail when he spotted an egg in the cul de sac. Here's a pictoral account of his proceedings.

"Flap your wings," he said as he flapped away. Eeww, right? Well, he hasn't died of bird flu, which I'm very grateful for. He tries to be such a good big brother. Here he is with Nate. Reese and Nate might be considered chocolate (or dinosaur) eggs in this one. Look how cute they are. Nate sure likes to be with Reese. I think he wishes that Reese would stay home more often. You know it is sometimes hard on the sibling that has to stay home and not get the outside excitement and stimulation of being so popular.

In other news, this week is the Huber Family Fair and my dad's birthday. This group is really looking forward to the events and we hope all of you will join us with your talents and displays.I'm not so secretly hoping for another round of cane fighting. Since I'm doing the awards, there may be special awards for most original performances. Bring it on.Nate is trying to teach Reese the moves for their dance. See you there.

Signs of Spring

2009-03-17T05:48:00.000-07:00

For many around these parts one of the most prevalent signs of Spring are scantily clad folks. I won't focus on those. I do want to wish you all a Happy St. Patricks Day. For Miss, this is one of her signs of Spring: BOARDS coming up this Friday for this part. We wish you the best Miss. The grass is greener on the other side of boards.

In Spring our hose comes out of hibernation. Oakley has been helping a bit. He's actually more helpful these days than two years ago when these were taken, but look at how cute he is and how much he's grown.Now he's good at pointing out every spider and ant that comes along and he does still love the hose.

We've been working on our back yard some and it is looking somewhat better.

Another sign of Spring is that some of us are motivated to shed some of the winter accumulation. This is the case here. Chris and Mel have started the "Burn Baby Burn" challenge. Best wishes to the two of you. May you both succeed. Burn Baby Burn = Two Lean Machines!
Enjoy the nearly ninety! It's nearly Spring!

Dumb and Dumber

2009-03-05T13:04:00.000-08:00

Today when I was riding my sweet new bike, my phone fell out of my pocket and shattered! I thought "of all the dumb things!" Then I started thinking of just a few of the really dumb things that I have done in the past and figured that this wasn't the worst.

Last week my eyes were aching from the inside and I recalled last time they felt that way was when I was a young genious and wanted to wear eyeliner but knew that my resources were limited so I used my mom's Marks A Lot permanent marker to make a fine line on the top of each eyelid. It stung from the inside out. I don't recall how it ever came off. It was permanent, after all.

I also used to be very self concious of my pencil like figure. I wanted some shape. So I took apart a small world globe bank, wa lah, two perfect half circles that I taped in place and wore to the stake Primary singing practice. They were probably taped on there for a couple of hours and boy did they hurt. They dug perfect circles into my little chest.

On the same subject, a friend asked the other day if I could just make her a bra to go with a dress I had altered. I said no, but in thinking about it I have to admit that I once tried. I cut off and altered an undershirt to make it into a bra looking piece of underapparal. I got hit in the head that day with a rock a kid threw on the playground and had to go to the nurse. My dress got all bloody and the nurse called my mom to come take me to the doctor, but not before she unzipped my dress to show her my new underwear. I was devasted that my mom saw my creation. I wonder now what my plans were for laundering that piece. Once again, of all the dumb things.

Well, I imagine confessions won't take care of my phone but at least I didn't blow up my bike tire when I stopped at the AMPM on the corner of Broadway and Gilbert to add a little air in my tire on the way home from Mesa Jr. pool when it was 200 degrees. Yup, I did that too. Well, have a good day folks. Remember to think. It's the smart thing to do.

The wretched truth!

2009-02-23T14:32:00.000-08:00

So often my kids pose for pictures, but here's the wretched truth, when they don't, things are pretty somber. So, personally I like them posing. Does that make them posers?

Also, I thought when I was in Iowa that Chase looked a lot like Reese and Nate so I

need to know if any of you see it like I do, or are we in for some more of the wretched truth? Name that baby:

B? Or does he look like Daniel Jones? C?D? Actually, I think he is rolling his eyes. Learned from his brother.

Okay, so maybe not. I mean the oxygen gives it all away, but I swear they all have an outfit like this little striped number and they could pass for triplets if they all wear them at the same time. How about tomorrow in honor of Reese's surgery?

And shame on you who are supposed to be studying and are blogging instead. I'm supposed to be sewing. Procrastination does not run in these genes! Have a happy day and remember to smile!

Sabbatical = The year of the garden, this is not

2009-02-18T13:16:00.000-08:00

I took a sabbatical leave. You may be sorry that I'm back because this is exceedingly long but pictures do follow. I've enjoyed pioneering through a catcus forest with Pueblo Stake's youth the first three days of the year on a pioneer trek. Don't get me started, I go on and on about it and cry a lot while remembering the many miracles and things I learned.

I knew it was past time to put away Christmas when Oakley found another use for the battery operated tea lights. As you can see, my kids are all still highly attractive. All of them are, not just those you see here. They bring me so much happiness.

Iowa's winter was another treat. My blood thickened fairly quickly, especially since I stayed inside pretty much all day long wearing three layers of poly pro and wool. I really can't see how people there actually go out in it. I was amazed that Jake would put out the garbage and shovel the walk in his scrubs before going to the hospital each morning at 6:30. This picture was taken just after Amy said it felt like Spring.

These kids have quite the traditions getting ready for bed, but before that, does anyone see the Donald resemblance in the teeth section? No teeth missing. Caleb and Amy always wanted to have me make them in a mummy bag. I just thought Melissa would enjoy this shot of Caleb's pj top.But before bed, there are wholesome family activities. Here is Parker doing "ring around the rosie," standing with his own strength.

And did you know that there are such things as Articles of Faith dances. Rules= those who are not dancing have to sing the Article of Faith song. Caleb and Amy perform # 6.
Their inspiration comes from this man. Here's Jake performing # 10. We believe in the literal gathering of Israel and in the restoration of the ten tribes... it's so catchy, it's Jake's favorite and it is still stuck in my head. You have to dance in Iowa to get your exercise.

Here's the happy Iowa family. Aren't they so calm and cute.Oops, I forgot one of my favorite Sunday activities was "dancing horsey." It was done to Sunday music, therefore it was Sunday appropriate.

Back at home, Grandma Great got to hold Reese. He's excited. And Nate it going out for football.Anyhoo, I haven't spent too much time in my garden this year so I was thrilled to find an iris in bloom when I looked out my window. The only other flowers are the yellow ones on top of the broccoli plants. Better luck next year, maybe it won't be a sabbatical from the garden year.

It's Birthday Time Again!

2008-12-30T15:09:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to Beth! Having a birthday on December 30th can mean that you may get overlooked nearly every year. We wish her a successful, fun filled year. We love you, Beth. Beth is the best sport in every aspect of life. She takes Sophia's attitude that she inherited from her dad. He's kind of full of nonsense sometimes, and the rest of the time he's fairly opinionated, so she is a good sport, if you know what I mean.

Beth has the nicest parents in the universe, which is where we think she got some of her fabulous traits. They are supportive, loving, kind, and accepting. She's like that too.

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Beth, Happy Birthday to you. (Now, let's sing it again, while you blow out the candles, only it will be an octave higher.)

What are the chances that Beth will get a Jones nephew on her birthday? Maybe they will name him McBeth!

Picture This

2008-12-13T11:02:00.000-08:00

We're so glad that Chris, Beth and Sophia came for Thanksgiving. It totally made us happy.

There have been several times this past month when I wished I had my camera because one picture is worth a thousand words. But because I either didn't have my camera or didn't dare pull it out at the appropriate time, here you have a very wordy post.

Word Picture#1= I was riding to a doctor's appointment with my wheelchair bound friend. I was in the front seat of the transport van with the driver. As I turned to chat with my friend whose wheelchair was strapped to the floor facing backward, I noticed a large red sign. It read "Seating positions in front of vehicle are for the physically challenged." Please make seats available to those who wish to use them. Now I ask, what does that make the driver and me? And who is the sign quoting?

Word Picture#2= Mel and I were standing in the check out line at Costco when I got the whiff of a long time familiar aroma. Could it be perm? Looking forward there was an older man with orange very tightly curled (I'm guessing red rods) wet hair. Looking at his orange shirt, I noticed a red jaggity wet ring at his neck line, the culprit of the aroma. One interesting side light is that his back hair matched the color and curl of his head.

Word Picture#3 = Oakley ate his ham, grapes, orange and carrot without spitting them out. I was so proud of him for cleaning his turtle bowl so well. Suddenly it all returned to the bowl in minced form. I do have a picture for this one, but the picture will never do it justice.Lastly, and we do have pictures for this performance. Noelle and Marissa played their piano recital pieces so well today. Recitals are so nerve wracking, aren't they? They not only played well, but looked beautiful at the same time. We're so proud of them.

Babies!!!

2008-11-12T05:53:00.000-08:00

Reese Melvin: AKA Baby A: 2 lbs 7 oz - 14 3/4 inches long

Reese has been the strong one who pretty much tried to compensate for his little brother. I think he is the peacemaker and calming influence and even though he is bigger he wasn't quite as ready to come. We're so grateful for wonderful smart doctors, who confer with other wonderful specialists and then act on their plan. Reese has a blood clot in his leg that they are hoping to be able to dissolve. Thank you for your continued prayers.Nate Jeffrey: He has been known as Baby B until this time. 2 pounds 2 oz. - 14 inches long

This is the little guy that caused the doctor to sprint into the room and announce that the babies were on their way. Previously his heart rate had been low, then high, then okay. He had reverse blood flow issues and just kept the doctors consulting and wondering. Monday afternoon his heart rate had been around 200 for an hour and things weren't calming down. Sara called Jason who was dutifully coaching at basketball practice. Jason made it to the OR with 30 seconds to spare. He is such a caring, concerned and loving husband and dad. We, as parents are so grateful for him. The "heating pad" on his head looked to be a 4X4 pad.
Oakley has been a trooper too. Last week when Sara was first in the hospital (again) he and I were riding home from the ball field, and he said, "I want to go home." I told him that we were going home. He said, "NO! I want to go home! Mom! Dad! I want to go home." He seemed so happy to sit next to Jason in the hospital chair and play games on his dad's phone, then talk to Sara and see that she was at the "docker." He has done pretty well all week long, but yesterday was another "I want to go home day" at Debbie's and then with Grandma Roberta. So in that way, "normal" will come soon, little buddy. Here's a picture of him at birth. We thought he was so little. He truly is the big brother. In about 2 1/2 months, Reese and Nate will look somewhat the same. You'll see.
Sara is looking forward to when things are back to normal. I'm thinking "normal" won't ever have quite the same meaning. We are so proud of her and Jason.

Random Review

2008-11-01T21:39:00.000-07:00

Tonight we went to the adult session of stake conference. Edith Haws was the first speaker and gave an excellent talk with the message: Learn from the past and live for the future. There are so many things to learn from the past. Some we would love to repeat daily, or maybe yearly as traditions while others we just hold our breath and hope we never have to struggle like that again. I'll review some things I have learned from the past. My grandchildren have amazingly strong parents. These are parents who, even in hard times, make it good for their kids. This was ten days after Parker was born, while he was still in the hospital. Even though Natalie spent all of her time at the hospital she had already made the Peter Pan costume and the Wendy outfit, bought the swords and had everything ready for Halloween.

It may not be cool enough to hike on Christmas day in Arizona. Also note, all of the boys in our family make a certain face when they are telling a BIG story. Don't believe a word they say. On the other hand, I don't know a more honest pair than my parents. My mother is always True! Proverbs 22:1- A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold.

Some get or make more hype for their birthdays than others. Would you believe, the Primary music chorister still remembers Melissa's birthday? How many years since Melissa was in Kachina ward Primary?

Miracles still happen! God still loves his children and we are so grateful.

Kevin is the favorite. Don't know how it happened, but it is evident.

Live for the future. It will be amazing!

Halloween - what are you going to be?

2008-10-27T13:58:00.000-07:00

Abby Normal

2008-10-21T15:04:00.000-07:00

Just in time for Halloween please see our science projects. Fetal pigs? Brains in a bottle? Pretty much looks like it. Lately we've thought that it was cool enough to pressure can a batch of something a couple of times a week. As I cut up the chicken, I thought how this was just like cutting through flesh. The scissors made the same neat sound as when I cut through my own hand. I am thinking of going back to school. I'm wondering what the chances are that I could become a hand surgeon.
A brain surgeon?
Maybe I should become an architect. Wait, I just provided the box and the girls pretty much did the architectual design work. This is a very cool house though, they even decorated the inside and made a decorative walk up to it.

Or should I become a school teacher? Is it normal to be wondering about this at this age ? What am I going to be when I grow up? Grow up? That might be a key phrase.Here's the man who allows me to have so much fun being a grandma and playing at all of these fun pastimes. He is the one who doesn't call me Abby Normal (out loud).
If I were a brain surgeon, an architect, or a school teacher I might miss out on times like these. I wouldn't care if my brains were in the bottle labeled A B-normal.

STAND

2008-10-15T06:54:00.000-07:00

I pulled out the long standing zinnias. Green bulb shoots are coming through the ground. I'm excited for new flowers.

Thought for the day: Stand together and lift where you stand! Thank you friends for doing just that.

Golden

2008-09-24T09:07:00.000-07:00

My kids said that this birthday, recently past, was my Golden Birthday. How? I asked. Well, you were born in '54 and you are 54 years old. Wow! So my day was filled with goldness! Many thanks from me to each of you who made it so golden. You are all the BEST!

One golden memory was provided by my sweet sister Elaine. The golden bag with golden tissue paper, produced golden apple cider and two snorkel cups. Now there is a GOLDEN memory. When we were kids we each had a yellow snorkel (straw built into the side) cup with our name written on it with permanent marker. We loved these cups. They were a little difficult to clean, especially after making chocolate milk in them, and drinking homemade lemonade or orange juice was tricky with all the pulp and sometimes a stuck seed, but oh the fun we had with them. We would blow bubbles in our milk until the bubbles came over the side of the cup, and Mom would tell us to stop. I also remember when it was my turn to do the dishes of using them to make great bubbles in the dish water. No wonder it took a couple of hours to do the dishes. Thank you dear Elaine, for the golden memory.

Alan, Marie and Grace, is it a golden day for you?

more than sleep walking

2008-09-20T07:00:00.000-07:00

My friend and I speedwalk for exercise nearly every morning of the year. Recently we had an experience that has caused much deep thought and prayers since. This morning I read a scripture that applies: "Pray ye, therefore, that their ears may be opened unto your cries, that I may be merciful unto them, that these things may not come upon them." (D & C 101: 92) So please know that I share this experience, begging for you to teach your children correct principles.

It was dark at nearly 5 AM as I approached the corner where my friend and I meet. I thought I could see her sitting on the sidewalk tying her shoe, but as I approached I became aware that it was a young woman sitting in the middle of the sidewalk, curled in a ball, dressed in only a tank top and panties, loudly crying. What was I to do? My friend was not there yet. I said a quick silent prayer, then approached the woman. I asked if I could help her. She stopped wailing and stated that I could help her by calling 911 because her boyfriend abused her. After repeating her instructions to me she resumed her mournful crying and I did as she requested. As I was talking to the dispatcher, giving her discription and our location (a busy street corner) she stood up, looked around and started walking. The dispatcher asked if I could still see her so as my friend joined me, we followed her at a distance. She stepped on something in the street and because she was barefoot, had to brush it off. That seemed to trigger something in her and she started running. Following her to give directions to the dispatcher became more difficult as she ran through the dark neighborhood streets. Suddenly she turned on us and began charging at us yelling filthy words, hitting my friend as she told us to stop following her. Luckily, the dispatcher got the full effect of her instructions to us as the police arrived.

The young woman seemed relieved that the police were there, as were we. She talked to the officer, and my friend and I resumed our walk, having ready made conversation. We decided that it would be a total bummer to have a bad dream and then sleep walk out to the busy street, although neither of us believe that is what really happened.

This experience made me so very grateful for the values that I choose to live by. Several lines in The Family - A Proclamation to the World come to mind: "we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets." May we each, today, do those things that would "promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society." I truly believe that "happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ."

Fritos

2008-09-16T16:04:00.000-07:00

Jake visited this weekend and before he left he trimmed Mel's toenails. We loved having him here. These are NOT Mel's toenails, but Jake told us some interesting facts about feet and nails.

Reassuring thoughts...

2008-09-10T14:05:00.000-07:00

This morning at 6 AM I received a text from Sara saying "Jim and Tom Ewald were identical twins and I could tell them apart. We'll be fine!" Now I know Sara hasn't been sleeping well since she found out that she's having identical twins, but honestly, it's a stretch to think this gave her reassurance. So today I have been thinking about things that reassure me because I haven't been sleeping well at night either. It is reassuring to me that Sophia and I can wear the same type hat and we're both so cute. I am reassured when it rains now that a sheet of water isn't going to drench us as we walk out the front door because Melvi's birthday present from the kids, the Japanese water spout drainer dealiwhacker works like a champ. It's amazing.I have loved the rain of late, haven't you? But it seems that after every storm we have scorpions, ants coming out of light switches and a ton of crickets. Bugman DeRayEarlHarold says that will happen. Not real assuring! I guess I can rest assured that we haven't been evacuated from our home and the bugs haven't taken over 100%.

Oakley is two. He's been trying to figure out how everything works. He knows how to turn the hose on now and apparently isn't quite sure how to turn it off. Look at Sara's face, everything will be okay.It seems that nothing is serious around here. That is probably good because you either have to laugh or cry, and crying always gives a headache.

Rest assured the chair legs we just got were not labeled in the USA but then how do you want your leg cooked?

This WAS in the USA so rest assured that English is a difficult language.We're going on a pioneer trek on January 1,2,3rd and I am trying to get in shape so that my heart won't give out during the trek. Caleb is my motivation. Do you think I can be in as good of shape as he is by then?
Also, we are hosting a wedding reception in our back yard the first part of October. I am a little worried about what to do with the swing set. It is not going anywhere. Should we use it as a backdrop or just part of the line? There are two swings, should we use them for the pictures?

Come on, give me some reassurance here. I'm not sure what to do. Maybe Jim and Tom can come over and we can guess which one is which.

Even Steven!

2008-09-06T20:48:00.000-07:00

Dah-dah-dah-dah!!!!! These boys get a new brother in January.And this boy gets two new brothers in January.

We feel blessed to have three more grandsons joining our family in January. That pretty well makes an even tie, girls vs. boys. Six of each makes for two first string basketball teams, doesn't it? With all of our athletic abilities, don't you think Jason could do something with them?

Mud

2008-08-28T19:01:00.000-07:00

...a picture story.

Whine and tattle!

2008-08-23T13:12:00.000-07:00

Stop whining Jake! We're busy. Not with anything that is blog worthy but maybe I'm busy walking my cat! On the tattle note: I saw Kurt K today, walking along Broadway. Looks the same only worse!

Do you ever feel like this?

2008-07-17T13:56:00.000-07:00

I've been feeling like I don't get anything accomplished and that everything I do has a catch in the get-along and requires the spending of way too much money. Anxiety! New church calling. Stress! And not enough energy. Do you ever feel this way?

This month we have been working on our house a little. Here it is fairly put back together, before the drip system cap came off and power sprayed the paint off the front of the house (RRRG!). Salvador came and put up shutters. They keep out the heat very well. They also keep out the light and when you close them, it is DARK. Our answer to saving energy.
Then we had a brisk wind that blew our Chinese Elm tree so hard that it split and broke some of the roof tiles. Our front Queen Palm is hollow with a very cool woodpecker circle in the front, and our mesquite tree in the back also broke. Tree Doctors are on vacation - don't blame them, so sweet Mel spent two days working on our broken limbs. We'll have to have them take a look at our woodpecker haven. Roofer is also on vacation. Does anyone know a plumber for the two toilets that keep running?
Beth and Chris invited us to a concert at Red Butte Garden for Mel's birthday so we took a welcome vacation from our problems. They helped us find Mel's new favorite restaurant EVER and people at the restaurant commented on how good Soph Soph was.

Soph loves her Gramps, especially his glasses and his mouth. She may be our next hygienist.
Beth made a great picnic dinner for us with the birthday cake surprise. He did blow out all his candles, each of which represented 28 1/2 years. He wasn't so lucky when he got home and had to perform to the tune of 57 wax nubs in a cake.
I wondered why Bruce has been having a little trouble with his digestive system, but he seems happy. We have sure enjoyed kids having lunch and swimming.Today I walked, read scriptures, took Kev to the airport, took in Mel's lab case and banking, painted a tree on a day care reading nook wall, watered the zinnias, started to cut out a dress for Leslie and talked to my friend Arlene on the phone. Although invisible work, I guess I have accomplished something AND I didn't spend any money. Zinnias make me happy and with the fresh coat of paint behind them, life is good. Do you ever feel like this?

ZCMI food court

2008-07-15T15:49:00.000-07:00

As you may already know, just about the only thing left of ZCMI in SLC is the food court. I was taking a picture of Mel on his birthday and a song from the past popped into my head. Can you finish the sentence? I can't remember it. Modesty is always in style. It never goes out. It's in. It's in the latest fashion, with...

stars and stripes and fireworks

2008-07-14T16:35:00.000-07:00

Sparkling teeth - muppet show? red, white, and Bru
Pretty Nat and Parker too
and Oakley when he's two
an unfair side note: all Jones' burn and peel but Brynn and Nicole look so tan in their burns
It won't let me post more now, but I can tell you, you're in for a UTAH treat.

Wind Beneath My Wings

2008-07-02T16:33:00.000-07:00

Recently, Mel rode with a group on the "salt works tour 2008." He loves to see country and had only one complaint. They stopped too often, for too long and traveled too slow (that is one, right?). I tried to tell him it is the "hike as fast as the slowest hiker" idea but after seeing the ratio of parked bikes pictures I might have to agree.Beauty everywhere.
Southern Utah

Fly, fly, fly... you are the wind beneath my wings...

Amazing

2008-06-27T13:28:00.000-07:00

WARNING: AMAZINGLY LOVG POST!

for future reference (l to r): Kerstyn Duke, Becca Ashcroft, Elise Jones, Jenny Rich, Brittany Knight and Kathy Hinckley

Recently, I returned from girls camp after an AMAZING week at Camp LoMIA. This summer marks 20 years since I started going to camp with the Young Women of Pueblo Stake. Our camp theme this year was "I Stand All Amazed." We talked about loving and respecting the amazing creations, the amazing plan of Heavenly Father, the amazing love of our Savior. It became a time of reflection for me. I'd like to share a few things that I think are amazing.
Amazing: cobs of corn and tomatoes that can grow in Arizona heat.
You thought the corn was a high as an elephant's eye. Take a look at Melissa.

Amazing: sharing her professional painting skills.Amazing: Melissa's smile and stamina to endure. Amazing: what a fresh coat of paint can do.Amazing: Six year old's teeth, and to think that Melissa plans to clean them. Amazing: The way my grandchildren can amuse themselves. (Why is it so fun to dress up?)

Amazing: more than one helicopter pilot in the family. Oakley during the one minute rain.Amazing: We can can! (Also, I'm so amazed that Alyson taught her girls to sew. They each got to sew their own apron.)

Amazing: My dish stacking abilities.

Amazing: 96 jars of applesauce makes us tired.And quite possibly the most amazing thing that I have witnessed is our Parker boy. For Mother's Day I received a card with his hand prints and I marveled at my Heavenly Father's plan for him. I am so grateful for God's love for me and I stand all amazed!

Entertainment for sale

2008-06-25T07:17:00.000-07:00

You know, I've been thinkin' ... said Mel. When he gets this look you know we're all in trouble. Well, he is trying to sell this transportation mode, and it seems that even though it's a great deal, that anyone who comes to ride it in 384 degree weather, doesn't see the beauty of it.But people, it's a steal of a deal. It's been well maintained you can be sure, and is great for another couple of hundred-thousand miles yet to come. Kevin isn't allowed to have it, so can someone else step up to the plate, please. And Kurt from Virginia, we're not riding it back there for you to try out.

Personally, I'd have a harder time than this, just staying on the thing.

Birthday Wishes from Bruce

2008-05-27T19:39:00.001-07:00

Nicole is 22 today! Happy Birthday to you. Happy Birthday to you. Happy Birthday dear Nicole, Happy Birthday to you! (repeat 22 times, in a higher key each time) Secretly she wishes for a birthday greeting from her baby, Bruce.

So here it is. Bruce sends loves and kisses.

Bruce wants you to know that he is behaving very well while you are gone to Virginia. He is a little bored that you aren't here but he wants you to know that he loves and misses you. You know that you are loved if you get TP'ed, so this one's for you. It's difficult to get it all the way up the stairs, when you get so distracted by the great flavor.

or maybe it's a texture thing...
nope, this is just plain fun...

Bruce will keep an eye out for you...

and hope you are having a great time while he takes care of the nieces and nephews for you. Bruce is such an entertainer that maybe Jake can teach him how to play it on the piano when he gets here. Birthday wishes to you from Bruce.

I Swear!

2008-05-27T06:47:00.000-07:00

May 23, 2008- We went to Salt Lake City for the Utah State Bar Admission Ceremony. Chris said he was going to be sworn in or cussed out. He thought afterwards that he was the only one with a light suit. Evidence shows however, there was one other directly in back of him who also had a light suit and head. Here is the proud swearing moment. Neck craning,
proud moments,
as a new Utah State Bar Member with his sweet girls.
Sophia stands to show off her June Cleaver dress. She's nine months old on this day.
Beth and Chris took us up Mill Creek to LogHaven, a restaurant with an amazing ambiance.
This place was absolutely beautiful with waterfalls, trees, and butter. I guess it isn't hard to tell who stole the show in the forefront of every picture. I swear!

Thanks kids for sharing your happy day with us. It truly was a monumental occasion.

Three Reasons We're Happy for Three Years

2008-05-19T21:16:00.000-07:00

Reason # 1: Philip takes such good care of his sweety. He makes her so happy. Reason # 2: Philip is so funny.
Reason # 3: Philip is so smart, not just in book learning, but in every way. Thank you for taking care of our princess Philip. Happy Anniversary, wherever you may be.

BONUS: Can't wait for these two princesses to get together again. It will be soon and we are excited.

Amazing

2008-05-19T10:00:00.000-07:00

Kevin is amazing! He recently figured out that he is lactose intolerant, so I'm wondering if his discovery will cause a weight gain, thus causing him to lose the bet with Melissa. For all of you who may not know, once Kevin weighs over 200 pounds he has to pay Melissa $1000 and buy a van. If he ever buys a van, he then owes her another $100. For Kevin's sake, I hope you keep eating the Dreyers' so that the extra 80 pounds doesn't find you.

Before Evolution

2008-05-07T13:31:00.000-07:00

At some point, Dad would like me to do a post on the evolution of his BMW life, but before that, and for now we'll just have a recap of his recent motorcyle ride from Wisconsin to Arizona. Here he is on his most recent purchase. I'm not sure if it is before or after the fish fry with Bryan.The highlight of his trip (for me=Grandma) was stopping in on these cuties.
He said they treated him royally and that Natalie has decorated the house with a classy flair. He stopped by the Nauvoo temple and saw beautiful tulips.
He called to say that he had gone all the way to Cuba. He explained that the same state also has Mexico in it.Some towns were full of angry, loud people.
Some towns were full of our relatives.All in all he went to every flippin place in the midwest... and that ain't no bull!

My Motorcycle Man

2008-04-30T12:29:00.000-07:00

He is coming home today. He picked up a new motorcycle in Wisconsin on Friday. Went to a fish fry, then onto the BMW dealership for two new tires and brawts, to Jake and Natalie's for fun and church, then onto a schenic ride through Missouri, Arkansas, Texas, New Mexico, to home. Riding is top on his love list.

What's the big DL?

2008-04-26T20:41:00.000-07:00

Oakley has taken quite a liking to Bruce. They are MFEO, just like brothers. You don't have to worry about either one if they are together. But on second thought maybe you should. DL=Digging Lively They were in the "desert" digging together the other day. We now have a hole deep enough for a small tree, or child sized wading pool. It's pretty great. DL=desert living

DL=Dog lollygagging. Bruce loves to "ettack" all of the stuffed farm and wild animals. The small pig no longer has back legs.

If you've been around, you've heard of my "dive for the live" story. Here it is in a nutshell (or dog's mouth), as it is in this case. Bruce caught a bird and immediately ran into the house with it still flapping between his teeth, for my approval. He dropped it at my feet by the dining room table and before I could do more than gasp, he grabbed it up and ran over under the piano with it. I told him, "Bruce, you can't be in here with that!" He immediately grabbed it and started upstairs. I went into shock and exclaimed, "Bruce, you can't go up there with that!" I sent him outside for lunch. So what's the big DeaL? We (Kevin and Nicole, Melvin and Grandma) have a bird dog. With that statement I'm afraid that you're all going to think that Grandma is now a Dog Lover. DL=Dog Lover.

That would be a switch and a big DeaL.

Doggonit!

2008-04-16T09:34:00.000-07:00

Doggonit #1- Bruce really likes Brynn. She is so sweet! He can't get quite enough of her (yuck). Doggonit all over it! Doggonit #2- I love pictures of fun events but have a timing disorder. I missed the shot of the cake with the 75 candles blazing and of Dad blowing them out.

Here's what I mean. I was pressing down while he was blowing, but when the shutter finally clicked, this was the image. He said that those left were his 39 grandchildren that he loves (not 39 fat girlfriends, like we would say at the Jones house).

And Doggonit #3- Too many hot days and these beauties are not going to last through the weekend. I'm so sad because when they are gone it means HOT.

DOGGONIT!

8 seconds

2008-04-14T07:55:00.000-07:00

Melissa thinks she was on the buckin' bronco for at least 20 seconds. I beg to differ, but it was the most entertaining eight seconds I've had in a while. Check her blog for other great pictures. My kids are talented! Especially in the entertainment world.

PASSED

2008-04-12T21:49:00.000-07:00

Chris PASSED THE BAR EXAM! It's a happy day. Many prayers answered in the affirmative!

Happy 75 Happy Man!

2008-04-10T07:28:00.000-07:00

Lee Huber is 75 today. Happy, honest, humble, friendly, faithful, determined, animated, nice, strong, forgiving, kind, sweet, whistling, positive, spiritual, obedient, hard working, funny, dedicated, genuine are some words that begin to describe him. I'm putting together a little booklet for him if you'd like to add a few describing words of your own.

For years he called many people on their birthdays. On his birthday he always calls Van Garner because they share the b-day. Call me for his number if you'd like to return the favor to him.

MLK Diahrama = Black Lily

2008-04-04T14:43:00.000-07:00

Just for Christopher John A. Jones ~ and yes, good wives (Beth) remind husbands to be kind. Remember, Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Oatmeal is good for you, even if it is in your nose.

#1 Award ~ Most Original Performance

2008-04-02T09:10:00.000-07:00

Huber Family Fair entrys are always an array of talent and interest. This year's first prize (in my opinion) went to Dirk and Alexander Fulmer for their cane fighting exhibition. Masterfully executed, men! Other amazing displays, and talented dancers and pianists performed at the fair, but still, cane fighting = numero uno!

Here is an array of varied interests, not all included.

I think Ione would have been proud of my spring flowers this year. I even had a black cala lily and a bunch of white ones. They always remind me of her.

Easter egg dying was put off till Easter night but was just as fun. Pink and blue egg salad sandwiches for the next week were also a hit, except in the smell department.

Plastic eggs were the best for Oakley to crack, but there were so many exciting things going on that it didn't take long for him to move on to the real thing.

We finally got to see Bruce Jones talent displayed on Sunday night as he read a story to us with the help of Nicole. He would have performed at the Huber Family Fair but they missed it by a week. We're glad they are home to perform non-stop for us.

Spring Break - Fun in Cali vs Quilt Mania

2008-03-24T07:51:00.000-07:00

We had planned to join K & A in Cali for a week of ultra fun at the beach and Disneyland when we found out that a family in our ward was going to the temple on Friday to have their four little girls sealed to them. About ten years ago I painted an Arizona temple on a piece of fabric for this couple as incentive for a quilt when they went to the temple. I had given it to them and totally forgotten about it. I was "reminded" about it on Sunday and decided to make good on my word. Russell and Rhondia wanted blue and green so I pieced and pressed and speed quilted until Thursday afternoon. Here it is after the quilting party, just needing to be bound. My treat was being able to be with them in the temple. Words can't express the sweetness. I just regret missing the fun we would have had with our four little Nielson girls. I hope they will forgive.

Bloomin' Green

2008-03-04T20:09:00.000-08:00

I love the smell of Spring! I love the color of Spring! It's here!

We've been working in the back yard this week. Love it all!

Scouts

2008-02-28T06:21:00.000-08:00

Approximately 26 years ago I was called as a Den Leader in Cub Scouts. We had so much fun hot glueing crickets to our tablesaw out back, and making papermache creations over balloons that pop and fly up to the ceiling fan and flap all over the kitchen. It's funny that I was so nervous to have those boys come each week. Then my sons and husband progressed to scouts and scout camp and merit badges and scout hikes and all that goes with that. I was in Primary and was so mad that Mel made me go to "basic training." I learned a lot about leadership. Years passed, more roundtables, more scouts, and I should have three "My son is an Eagle Scout" bumperstickers plastered across the back of my van. Scouting for life! That's my motto. I feel honored to have received the "On my honor" award recently a our court of honor. I just feel bad that I didn't get to sit in the Eagle's nest.

Crossing the Bar - Raising the Bar - Passing the Bar

2008-02-21T13:25:00.000-08:00

It seems we are all trying to do something with the bar. Whether it is to raise the standard or bar, whether it is to endure to the end so to be able to cross the bar, or to have studied yourself crazy as this young lad has, to pass the bar, we're all in this together. In earlier years I seem to remember telling Chris to stay away from bars. Now, I just hope he doesn't drive Beth to drink. Sophia and I are some of Chris' biggest fans. Rah, rah, rah, go, fight, win!

Bar, schmar! Not barf. That's Parker's take on it. Amy says to make sure you wear your smile for it. Even a nervous smile is possible.

Dad and the "Pueblo Prowlers" say, "Just run 'em over, there's no stoppin' ya, now!"

The nieces and nephews say not to get too serious about it. It's going to be over before you know it.

Joe and Mary Ann are just soooooooo proud of you. Joe's holding his breath for you!

Oakley's thought is "if you can just hold on, white knuckle it, have faith, you'll be just fine.

You'll do great Christopher John Jones, we know you will. Love you, Mom and Dad

V-day, For the love!

2008-02-14T12:52:00.000-08:00

Some might say Happy V-Day but when I think of V, I think of Vicks. And when I think of Vicks, I think of Morgan Bates and Vicks. I think of whiny requests to wrap a dark sock around his Vicks swathed throat and pin it with a big safety pin. Are you kidding? For the love! So for all of you, Happy Valentines Day! This mama and papa love you whether or not we have to swath with Vicks and wrap with a dark sock. What I'd give for a picture of Morgie wrapped in a Vicks covered sock.

Virus

2008-02-04T12:02:00.000-08:00

Virus! It seems that's what we did for January. First one then the other, and back and forth until our computer also caught it. Thanks to "Leather Brain" we're back in the running. Happy Rainy Day! Don't any of you get a virus!

Happy Birthday to the face of expression

2008-01-20T07:03:00.000-08:00

Today marks the anniversary of this face of expression. Kevin is 25 today. Happy Birthday to you. We love your face with your expressive eyes and ...

concern...Happy Birthday to Amy Anne too.

Twinner eyebrows? What do you think? It adds to the expression.

Everybody loves our Kev! Happy Birthday Kevin Scott Danger Jones.

Happy Birthday James Winfield!

2008-01-17T06:16:00.000-08:00

"Have I seen the hand of God reaching out to touch us or our children or our family today?" ~Henry B. Eyring

One year older and wiser too. We were afraid this wouldn't happen about seven weeks ago when James got plowed over by a huge car while on his little motorized bike, thus breaking nearly every bone in his body and puncturing every organ. Miracle of life, again and again.

The answer is a profound "YES!"

The back end

2008-01-07T10:54:00.000-08:00

I never realized that Joseph may have also ridden the donkey between Innkeepers. Our nativity re-enactment brought new meaning. It may have been very thought provoking.

Conglomerate in 2008

2008-01-03T13:22:00.000-08:00

Welcome to Jones 2008! This is the master of the house, the master of ceremonies, head honcho, Dad. We sang "We're all together again, we're here, we're here..." but we didn't get any pictures of all of us together, so here's a sampling of us when we were all together recently.

Philip and Melissa with several of their children.

Aren't we all glad that Sophia got Beth's eyebrows?

We have six siblings sporting the same smile and Jake wearing his Grandma Jones shirt.
And thats the end of the story. Ahhhh! Read it again, Dad!
. . .and if anyone got home with pictures of the Nativity dramatization, I would appreciate at least one picture of Joseph and Mary on the donkey, the shepherds, sheep and wisemen, not to mention the Innkeeper. Thanks!

worth the wait

2007-12-28T05:14:00.000-08:00

Here ya have it! Kev and Nicole's reaction to their Christmas gift." Christmas Gift" is a tradition at our house with absolutely no limits on how to "get it" on someone else. It has to be yelled as loud as possible before everyone else says it. At least one representative from every family tried sneaking in the back door, because of the inevitable front door greeters.

I had wondered why our archway has a gigantic crack - now I know. Thanks a lot Kevin! Christmas Gift!

Part of the "Bowling Bullets" (said in a British accent).

Generally speaking - One continuous party! Confusion, fun, food, festivities!

Anticipation is making me...

2007-12-20T06:41:00.000-08:00

Can't wait to see how much our little Parker has changed. Can't wait to see who the donkey is going to be in the Nativity.

Can't wait to show the kids dad's new office,

and Dad's new toy,

Can't wait to see how well the costume boxes work.

Can't wait to see Nicole's reaction to her present this year.

Can't wait to go on a hike.

Can't wait for all the good attitudes,

and to see how much this little gal has grown.

Can't wait! I'm so excited!

Too Good to be True!

2007-12-11T09:43:00.000-08:00

Are you kidding me? In my mind, nothing is too good to be True.
My mom is True.
Yesterday was her birthday. I wish I would have taken a picture of her yesterday, because she was so pretty getting ready to have lunch with her temple lady friends. I'd like to give reasons, maybe up to 74 (which is how many years she has been practicing being True) disputing this saying:

First off, she walked uphill in the snow to school all her school days. Then she walked home from school, uphill in the snow. My dad was attracted to her in the snow, and threw a snowball to get her attention. At that time she said that she would be True forever. She knows about cold. She knows about Russian ice and bitter cold, she endured it with a song in her heart and on her lips, with a cheery countanence. She is True.

-True can plan and carry out a party with the best of them. She works up a program and is a great master of ceremonies. She plans food, and does assignments and invitations, often with graphics. It makes her happy to see people eat heartily.

Dr. Lariat, anyone? She knows the value of hard work or "working off a good meal."

-True is concerned about others and treats each person she meets with respect, love, understanding, humor, and warmth. She looks for the good in people.

It truly makes her happy to see her family having a good time.She has been frugal with her resources. Taking care of produce from the garden, making ends meet, not acting like it's a burden but a blessing, is another way that she is True. She also expresses gratitude to Heavenly Father for everything. She is a woman of faith.Once, Dad planted eggplant. She didn't know what to do with it, but she made all kinds of dishes with it. Waste not, what the Lord has given us, is another True doctrine.-True has always sponsored creativity. She seems thrilled when others share talents or anything that they have learned with her.

-True is always all about feeding with good food. She has always been very compassionate and has made millions of meals for others. She does not believe in "meals on wheels" or "grazing" however at her house. You sit at the table to eat off from a real plate, not in front of the TV.

-True keeps traditions going. Except for wearing her fall vest for Thanksgiving this year, making me lose a bet with Marie. (I will pay, I can be True in that way.)

True always lets others help. She makes them feel so important in telling them profusely how nice what they did looks and how they did it better than she ever could (sorta not true).True is true to others feelings. She would put up decorations that someone lovingly made for her, even though she perferred something else, to make them happy. True loves the Savior. She is true to God and her fellowmen. She is quite literally a latter-day Saint. She is honest, true, chaste, benevolent... full of faith and good works. She is virtuous in her thoughts, words and actions. I have never heard her swear or use any crude language. She a lady. She is lovely, of good report and praiseworthy.
Not, too good to be true, but Be True, Be True and stand for the right. That's my mom, True forever.

the least of my worries

2007-12-06T07:22:00.000-08:00

Every year when the weather turns cooler or I use too much Clorox my hands turn alligatorish. I usually spread on a thick layer of heavy duty night cream, put socks on my hands and go to bed. My husband thinks this is a strange practice. This morning when I pulled my hands out of the socks I was surprised to see that wearing socks to bed was the least of my worries. What do I do with my ALLIGATOR HANDS?

2007-12-05T09:46:00.000-08:00

Ione Memories

2007-12-05T09:24:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I received a note in the mail from a dear friend who said she had just come across a scribbly note in her notebook that she had written as she waited in the chapel before Ione's funeral. She mentioned something about good intentions never materializing and apologized for sending it along now.

I think it is nicer now, after the fact. See if you agree.

When I think of Ione Jones I think of a quiet, loving, smiling woman. I knew Ione first as a brand new mother with my first baby. The took me under her wing - she would stop by and give me a casserole or a blanket made of cool cotton for my baby since it was such a hot time of year.

On Sundays she would smile and give me encouraging words. I always looked forward to seeing her. She made me feel like a better person in her presence. More children came to me--another little boy, then twin girls --each time she took special care to let me know she was there for me. Quietly there. Solid and strong, an example of a true mother and grandmother.

She also mentored me in my church service. I had the opportunity to work with her. I learned that a good leader models the behavior you want others to become. I learned from her to become more aware of others and to do for others --to quietly serve. I learned you should be positive - look for the good. She always was so kind and complementary of my efforts. I know I was young. I was inexperienced and yet she made me feel capable and loved.

I am so thankful for the beautiful example and the influence for good that she has been to me. She is a remarkable woman and I love her. Thanks for sharing her. Love, Maureen

Twins?

2007-12-01T05:24:00.000-08:00

Aunt Dona says these two dads are twins. What do you think?

I think Alyson has always been so spiritual. Look, she's praying. Maybe she's praying that Chris won't clobber her. Wasn't Chris cute then and now? And look at my adorable Melvi! Aren't proud daddies' the best kind of happiness?

One week until National stretch pants day!

2007-11-15T19:05:00.000-08:00

I am so excited for Thanksgiving! These are some of the people who will help us celebrate our blessings.